Soulful Advice from Donnarose

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Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success.  Please send your questions to or private message her via facebook: Go With Your Soul. Donnarose will select questions each month to share with you. She regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. ~ ♥

Q:  Dear Donnarose, with loved ones passed, the holidays do not seem to get easier.  I’d feel a little better if I knew my mother’s soul was at peace.  Please advise. ~ Nancy

A: ~ “Our loved one’s spirits are here to stay, and with us always to show us the way.” –  Donnarose Melvin

Nancy, I can relate personally as I lost my mother too.  I can tell you that your mother’s soul is surely at peace.  Now being out of the physical body, she is untouched by the things that concern us on the earthly plane as far as the painful emotions we experience.  Therefore, all she is and knows is Love.  She is even more powerful and able to assist you.  Consider that the energy we send out to our loved ones who have passed, if loving and positive, can only help their souls.  In addition, as time goes on, sending out love to your mom’s soul, opens your energy, and makes it easier to receive any messages and signs she may be trying to send you.  This connection will help produce the opposite effect of the holiday blues, and will help you feel more lifted.  I wish you peace Nancy.  ~ ♥


Q:  Dear Donnarose, since I am watching my weight, how do I possibly get through the holidays without eating everything in sight?  My willpower is pretty weak. ~Betsy

A: ~ “Keeping your strategy short and sweet, will make it easier to not overeat.” –Donnarose Melvin 

Well, you’ve come to the right person, as I was a pro in the wt. loss industry yrs ago, and lost a lot of weight as well.  And the same concepts apply even now.  First, never go to any function feeling hungry, and keep water in your hand as often as possible during it.  Incorporate the words I use into your vocabulary..that being, “won’t-power”. This removes the reminder of the word “will” in willpower as in, “I will eat this 3rd serving of lasagna.”  Instead of the usual thought “just one more”, continue to think of the “whys”, as to why you “won’t” have more than 2 cookies, or extra pie, or drinks.  And the why is simply because the outcome will be much more positive.  And once you increase your self-love, that will be a good enough reason in itself!   It’s important to keep it simple, and not overwhelm yourself with any thoughts that say you are “bad if you cheat”.  Remove those words from your vocabulary.  Only love-based thoughts about yourself will work to help you refrain from over-indulging.  It’s about thinking thoughts about eating and food that will work FOR you, not against you, and loving yourself during the process.  This will strengthen your “won’t-power” even more no matter where you are. ~♥


Q:  Dear Donnarose, since many in my family are overweight and unhealthy, my wife continues to hint for me to lose my stomach saying it’s a dangerous spot to have extra weight.  How would your gut advise me on this one? ~Frank

A: ~ "What’s good for the goose, is good for the gander.“  – unknown

 I’m assuming pun intended on that last statement?  Hmm..anyway, since we can google tons of links that say why excess weight around the midsection is dangerous, I will get to my “gut”  feeling here.  And that is, your wife wants your desire to stay fit to match hers.  There are so many women who are resentful because their man wants them to stay fit, including some curves.  Yet their man does the opposite, and has the gut.  Aside from health issues preventing exercise, bottom-line, considering the quote above would probably create more harmony in many ways.  As you are doing your crunches, think of all those ways, and it will put a smile on your face and make you include the treadmill.  If you indulge in the latter, the results will be positive in more ways than one. ~♥


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