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Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure |
Q: Dear Donnarose, my job is really making me ill in my soul/spirit. I need out but I need my job. Please advise. ~Teresa
A: ~ "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." ~ Dr. Wayne Dyer
I’m sorry you are going through this Teresa. I’ve been there as well, and there are a lot of people with this issue. The thing is, if you must keep your job for now, your only option is to look at it differently. With the above quote heavily in mind, I suggest you do what I did as it truly works. You will need to go deep inside yourself and increase your non-judgment and compassion energy- big time. Then force yourself to find one good thing about your boss and hold on tight to that. Focus on not taking things she says to you personally, especially if you know it's untrue and all ego driven. Then equally critical, is that you must raise your level of love for yourself, and that will also help you tremendously. When we love ourselves fully, we place a higher value on ourselves, and cease seeking approval from others to determine it. Also, to keep yourself sane from dealing with this daily negative situation, you absolutely must create balance. So aside from work, you must do things that make you feel good. Be sure to continue to meditate, stay in the light and close to Spirit. Pray on it as well, but during it, do more listening than talking to God and your angels, as they will SURELY help you to progress through this. They already are, as they had you send me your question. Consider this Divine support your first step towards success with this test! I know you will do great! ~♥
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Q: Dear Donnarose, I constantly worry all the time, and because of this, I stress myself even more. And I know this won't help to improve my finances or my life in general. Thanks for any advice you can give. ~Seidel
A: ~ "Worry is like praying for what you don't want." ~Unknown
I hear you Seidel. You have to make it a goal to really try to retrain your brain to do the opposite of what you’ve learned. That is, to focus on what you WANT to happen, as opposed to what you DON’T want to happen. I always say, only think of the thoughts you want to manifest, since whatever thoughts are in your mind, win…always. Also, be sure to raise your level of love energy for yourself. This will help the process of receiving what you desire, as when you love yourself enough, you will truly start to believe you deserve it. And always remember you are not alone. Surrender, Allow and Trust that God is right here assisting you, if you let Him. ~♥
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Q: Dear Donnarose, my mother-in-law is constantly negative and disrespectful towards my wife. I was asked to apologize to my mother-in-law, but after I did, she then told my wife I didn't apologize for the right reasons. This has been going on forever. How can I get my wife to see how her mother really is? ~Kyle
A: ~ "Sending love and light, makes things right!" ~Donnarose Melvin
Well Kyle, the thing is, your wife is currently unaware that she can still love her mother without accepting disrespectful treatment. But a lot of people in these situations either sever their relationship all together, or they stay in it and allow the negative treatment to continue. Since I can't advise the two of them as they are not here, I can only try to advise you. And I would need much more space to fully explain it all. But the bottom line is this. You cannot force your mother-in-law to change, nor force your wife to agree with you about her mother. But you can change your tactics AND your energy. The way to help to alter another person's behavior provided it's based on love, and for the benefit of all involved, is to do the opposite of sending angry energy towards them. That is, to send both of these ladies in your life, love and light, as the goal is to shift and lift their energy. And like my quote above says, by doing this, it will make things right..and I've seen this work countless times. This perhaps may not be something you will initially feel comfortable doing. But once you see it start to work, sending love and light will be part your daily routine I can assure you. The way to do this is very simple. First, take a deep breath, and just as you would water a tall plant, visualize pouring white beautiful light of God through them from the top of their head all the way through the bottom of their feet to the center of the earth. Now for yourself, in order for all this to work, that is, to help raise the love energy of these ladies, you have to first BE that loving energy. So that means first pouring this beautiful light through yourself, and only thinking thoughts about your mother-in-law that are in alignment with love. I hope you consider trying the above steps, since what you told me you’ve been doing, has not been working. But no worries, as with all this love and light being shone on yourself, your wife and mother-in-law, all three of you will truly come to terms, and will surely see things in a different light. The best to all of you! ~♥
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