Soulful Advice from Donnarose

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Donnarose Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success.  Please send your questions to or private message her via facebook: Go With Your Soul. Donnarose will select questions each month to share with you. She regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. ~ ♥

Q:  Dear Donnarose, I have read often that staying in a state of gratitude will bring me success.  How is being grateful going to help me make more money when I’ve had a lot of failures in my life? ~ Andy


 A: ~ "When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears." ~ Tony Robbins

Andy, I have a hunch that things are going to greatly change for you when you start incorporating the attitude of gratitude into your life.  Consider that it’s our thoughts and our energy associated with them that are basically like magnets, in that whatever they are, will attract like energy as the outcome.  When our confident, positive, grateful-for-opportunities, believe-in-ourselves energy is higher, we will attract people and things with like energy that are in alignment with our soul’s goals, meaning an outcome that will feel good to you.  On the contrary, as the above quote says, if we do not allow ourselves to be grateful for even the smallest of things, that’s when fear sets in, because that will mean our mind is in a state of lack. This basically is sending out the unworthy, I’m never-going-to-succeed energy.  Consider always being aware of how you are showing up during your phone, email or in-person contacts.  Depending on whether you put your attention on being positive/grateful or negative/doubtful will determine the type of outcome.  And rest assured, it will go in the direction of where you’re focused.  Truly try to feel grateful every step of the way, focus and enjoy the process, and watch your success grow!  Congratulations in advance! ~♥



Q:  Dear Donnarose, I’ve wanted to ask this for a long time.  I believe at times I feel and hear my deceased loved ones around me, and want to communicate with them.  But I ignore it because I’ve heard people say they might be negative spirits trying to trick me.  How can I tell the difference?  Thank you! ~Margaret

 A: "You can tell it’s a positive spirit that’s near, when your body feels comfort instead of fear." ~Donnarose Melvin
Well Margaret, after literally being in the presence of many hundreds of spirits, I’ve come to know this to be true.  That when it’s a loving presence near you, your body will feel more at ease and more comforted.  And you will then know that this spirit, whether it’s your loved one or other, will emanate loving peaceful energy with intentions only to help not harm you.  So in this case definitely pay close attention to any messages and follow through with them.  If there is a negative energy/entity near you, your body will feel uneasy or tense.  You will feel like your energy is being dragged down.  But truly, no worries, as you can quickly dismiss this dark energy.  If you are in a place where you can’t do too much, simply think a positive or even a funny thought.  This will raise your vibration which won’t work with keeping negative spirits around, as they vibrate at a lower level of energy.  If you can elaborate, just say to yourself or out loud if appropriate, "you are not invited here, go to the light, love love love, I am love and I trust God" (or whatever you call your Higher power).  You will feel this immediate release and will feel lighter.  Continue to keep this firm energy within you that gives the vibe that you will only allow around you, energies that are based on love.  And rest assured that when you feel a presence, it will be a loving spirit ready to assist you.  As I like to say, stay in the light, and it will keep things bright!  Happy connecting!  ~♥



Q:  Dear Donnarose, I enjoy reading your advice, and noticed that it often suggests that our thoughts need to be positive to attract positive things, or something to that effect.  What would be your answer if I asked you why our universe allows certain children to suffer from cancer and horrible diseases? They are too young to know how to think a certain way.  So why do these horrible things happen to innocent children?  They certainly aren't thinking negatively and asking for these things.  Thank you. ~Ann

A: ~ "When children are suffering and unable to play, have faith that the Angels are with them each day" ~ Donnarose Melvin
Thanks Ann.  I am glad to finally address this since it’s such a common question.  First, know that this type of question will bring an answer based on what I personally believe and what resonates with my soul.  And the only right answer for you, will be the one that resonates with your own soul, and brings you the most peace.  Also, anyone can google a ton of information on this topic.  The more one reads about it, the more comprehensive it gets.                                                               

But for now, to put this in the most simplistic way I can, I personally believe that our souls have contracts, where they have a general idea of what they are going to do while in our physical bodies.  If you want, you can look at it like a play.  Everyone has a script that has a specific role to play to produce a specific outcome.  Our souls have goals for us to carry out.  But just like actors adlib and change the script around, which may change that whole particular scene, our having free will very often causes us to change our soul’s script.  So in the same way as the play, this may often change the course that our soul originally planned.  But no worries, because the results- the destination, is still the same.  What that destination is will have to be discussed at another time.  But there is no stopwatch on how long it takes to reach our soul’s goals.  Now what does this have to do with children getting sick?  Their souls are no different than adults.  They have goals to achieve too (scripts to play out).  Children getting sick is like us getting sick.  But you say they are too young to have karmic debt to pay.  Well, sometimes it is karmic debt that was carried over from their previous lives.  And other times it’s irrelevant to karma, and their illness (and sometimes passing) was simply for the sole purpose of playing a very important role to help their parents (and others) learn specific lessons.  One example may be that the soul of the mother in her past life never knew compassion, etc, and she became the caregiver of her ill daughter in this lifetime.  Well for sure this soul’s purpose to learn compassion will be carried out.  Well at least that’s the plan.  Again, this can all be googled to learn about this in much greater detail.                                        

I would also like to mention that I have spoken to many hundreds of souls of deceased loved ones associated with my clients, with them sitting right there with me.  All of the souls I have spoken to, old and very young, were untouched by the negative human emotions and pain they experienced while suffering in their body.  They as a soul now totally understand the role they had while on earth.  They are always totally fine and at peace while communicating to myself and my clients.  And also keep in mind that right now our soul within us knows what’s going on.  It’s our human disconnection to our soul that makes this all so confusing.  That’s why I constantly try to talk about going within, or connecting to your soul on my facebook page "Go With Your Soul".  It helps make what happens in our world and with our loved ones a little bit more clear.  But when you have time, again, there is a wealth of information on the internet that will surely help.  In the interim, if anything can bring you peace when you know or hear of a child suffering, is to know that they are not alone.  I have done thousands of readings, and believe me when I say, there are angels and spirits always around devoted to supporting the soul in that body of that child.  Some people like myself who are more in tune can see this, and some cannot.  And that’s where faith comes into play like my quote above mentions.  For now as far as the children who are suffering, it is far more helpful to that soul, that child, if we send our beautiful love energy towards him/her, rather than disdain for the disease or illness they are succumbing to.  I hope this helped you if even a little, as I wish only peace for you Ann.  Blessings. ~♥

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