Happy 3rd Anniversary! Wow! It’s been 3 years January 1st since I've started this column! Thank you for your support, and a very Happy 2016 to all! Donnarose~♥
Q: Dear Donnarose, I'm trying to prepare for a better year for 2016, but I seem to be missing something. I indulge in healthful eating, exercise and being positive, yet this still doesnt seem to do the trick. Any thoughts? ~Regards, Danielle
A: “To make room for the good that's yet to come, release the stuck energy from what's already been done.”~Donnarose Melvin
You're off to a great start for the upcoming new year. Keep doing all you've mentioned, as it's not what you've been adding to your life that's been the issue, it's what has yet to be removed. Meaning, for years you've been carrying around stuck energy in the form of resentment, guilt, anger, unworthiness, etc., towards yourself and others. But at this point the stuck energy no longer serves you. Without clearing this out, it's like continuing to put new carpet over a rotted floor, whereas, it won't work for very long.
What will help to clear this stuck energy and help you enjoy all the good in your life, is to start with forgiveness. One way is to put it in the form of a prayer. And, thanks to a man I greatly admire, John Newton, here's an example of what you can say daily, or as often as possible. You can be as specific as you desire regarding the people and situations, past or present, as well as the Source you wish to use. This is not to replace but to complement whatever else you may be doing to help yourself in any way:
“Infinite Source, for me, my family, our entire lineage, and all our relationships throughout all time-past, present and future: Please help us all forgive each other, forgive ourselves, forgive all people, and all people forgive us completely and totally, now and forever, please and thank you.” After reading this silently or aloud consistently enough, don't be surprised if what you mentioned you indulged in above, suddenly starts to do the trick. ~♥
Q: Dear Donnarose, my mother tried to come through during many intuitive readings. Quite frankly, I'd rather she not be present. She must know this as a spirit, so why does she insist on being here? ~Thanks, Maura
A: ~ “Even if on a bad note, your loved one did depart, trust that when they come through, it'll gently lift your heart.” ~Donnarose Melvin
I've experienced contact with thousands of spirits. And what I've learned is that the main reason departed loved ones come through, is to give messages that are only to benefit my clients. What may possibly help you to become more open to your mother's messages, is to know she's no longer that same person so to speak, who was abusive and emotionally absent. The personality and ego part of her left with her physical body. Your mom's soul is now spiritual power, love, non-judgment, and Divine support. As hard as that is to believe considering what you've been through with her, the above is true. And a lot of our departed loved ones truly want to compensate for their negative behavior when they were physically here. So now your mom's focus is on how she can help you. And believe me, they really do make up for it.
If someday you choose to allow your mother to come through, first, prior to your reading, allow yourself to forgive her and yourself. This doesn't mean you approve of what she did. It's simply to help release any stuck energy you've been carrying, which helps facilitate receiving messages from the other side. I'm glad to say that I've yet to hear a negative response from a client who heard from someone who departed on a bad note. The energy always seems to shift which tends to raise my client's vibration, which then alters their perspective towards the positive side. At times, I've seen healing take place right during the session. Therefore, it is gently suggested to perhaps consider hearing what your mother has to say during your next reading. Always keep in mind, that you will still be the one in charge as far as what you decide to do with what you hear. And don't be surprised if what you hear, makes you feel a lot lighter after your reading.~♥
Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient, claircognizant, and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success. Please send your questions to SoulfullyYoursDonnarose@gmail.com or private message her via facebook: Soulfully Yours Donnarose. She will select questions each month to share with you. Donnarose regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. If you’d like an intuitive reading, contact Donnarose at the email address above. ~ ♥