Q: Dear Donnarose, I had a very difficult breakup a year ago, and would like to start dating again. How do I find a man who will be a much better match? ~Thank you, Crystal
A: ~ "When the love for yourself is at its best, chances are, you'll never settle for less." ~Donnarose Melvin
Well, you mentioned you would like to meet a man who's basically at a high level of self-worth, self-respect, and all the other goodies. You then said you mostly blame yourself for your failed relationship, and allowed your ex to make you feel worthless. Now perhaps that may be true, but continuous self-blame, victim consciousness, resentment, anger, etc., all reside at a lower vibration. So if you remain at this level of vibration, you'll attract a man at the same low level, and the vicious cycle will continue. With limited space here, the bottom-line is this. In order to attract a man at high level of self-love, self-respect, etc., where his treatment towards you will match the latter, and to appreciate it, you'll have to first be at that level of vibration. Keep this concept as simple as possible. Start by taking some time to date yourself so to speak, where the level of treatment towards yourself is nothing less than loving. After a while of getting used to this high level of loving treatment, you will choose to accept nothing less. And then get ready, because the men you will attract will be at this same loving vibration.~♥
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Q: Dear Donnarose, I frequently read that we need to walk away from that which no longer serves us. How does someone walk away from their brutal boss when they desperately need the job, or their dead marriage when financially it's not doable? ~Regards, Karen
A: ~ "Your soul has goals. Trust it will show you the way to go." ~Donnarose Melvin
Our ego tells us there's no higher power that will help us, that we're in this alone. And so it is many suffer with no end in sight. The other side of us, our soul, which is that energy causing our heart to beat, and connected to All That Is, says otherwise. The side you choose to trust will determine which path you walk on. In a restaurant, when you place your order with the server, after 5 or so minutes, do you then go in the kitchen to check if your meal is being cooked? Most likely not, right? You trust the server will bring you what you ordered. Or, after you planted a seed, in a day or two, would you pull it out of the dirt to check if there was any growth? Probably not, because the trust is there. Well, just the same, when we trust our Higher power (God, Source, Angels, Universe, or whatever word you desire), and not hope, but know He is working for our highest good during every breath we take, changes in your favor will occur either immediately or very close to it. So consider choosing to think in the light and stay on the side of your soul. Then get ready for new ideas, people, money, more courage, increased strength, information, places, etc., to all start appearing in your life, at the right moment, in perfect Divine order.~♥
Donnarose Melvin is a professional psychic, medium and energy healer, whose pleasure it is to assist clients worldwide. She incorporates knowledge from her degree in psychology, along with her clairvoyant, clairaudient, clairsentient and empathic gifts to guide her clients towards peace and success. Please send your questions to SoulfullyYoursDonnarose@gmail.com or private message her via facebook: Soulfully Yours Donnarose. She will select questions each month to share with you. Donnarose regrets that unpublished questions cannot be answered individually. If you’d like an intuitive reading, contact Donnarose at the email address above. ~ ♥
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